BlogPost 6: Steps of Friend Zone

           For me as in friend zone have many people experience friend zone as a sheepish guy. If you are sheepish you are forever friend zone. If you don't try the reality of love or you not to express your feeling to her. and you are forever in friend. I experience that I became a friend forever because I did not show my feelings to my crush. And one day suddenly I receive a news from my friend, my crush have a boyfriend. That day I'm so quiet and listless. And my crush ask me why you so quiet? I said "nothing never mind that".





            I read this article entitled The Philosophy of Friend Zone: Revisited in this site http://spilledicecream.wordpress.com/2012/12/26/the-philosophy-of-the-friendzone-revisited/ and the author http://spilledicecream.wordpress.com/author/kyleedralin/

based on this article telling of friend zone following steps.


YOU ARE FRIENDZONED IF YOU FOLLOWED ALL OF THESE STEPS:


-BOY LIKES GIRL. Or the other way around, I’m just assuming that most of the friendzoned are males.

-ATTRACTION IS COMPLETELY ONE-SIDED. This must be necessary. If there is mutual attraction, what the hell are you doing reading this?? Take her/him out already!

-OTHER PARTY KNOWS ABOUT SAID ATTRACTION. This is VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!! Notice the bold italicization. It is imperative that you must have told the other party about your attraction to them. Otherwise, follow rule above, with the revision that TELL THEM. Geez. Half of the problem is solved-or rises-when this part is over with.

-OTHER PARTY DECLINES RECIPROCITY OF ATTRACTION, BUT WISHES TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP OUTSIDE SAID ATTRACTION. Now, here’s where the “SUX2BU” comes in. You just confessed to the person, and they decline, but wish to keep you as a friend. Sometimes though, they don’t give a straight answer, which is one of the most cruel things that you can do to someone. Very politely, pressure them for an answer. This stage is one of the most tricky to navigate through, but the sooner you get an answer, the better. If they say yes- then go for it. If they say no, well… follow through the last step. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES MUST YOU WAIT FOR AN ANSWER. THAT IS JUST MEAN.

-DESPITE OF ALL ABOVE SITUATIONS, YOU STILL WISH TO PURSUE SAID PERSON AS A ROMANTIC INTEREST. The clincher. The cruel, cruel hope that one day, they would feel the same as you. That like some cheap Hollywood movie, they would turn around and realize that you, the love of their lives, was just behind them all the time while they probably went out with a dozen different guys before they realized it.







        If you follow that steps you supposed to be in friend zone. i hate friend zone really really hate that because if you in friend zone you love your friend?. or she love anyone and telling help to each other. and try to fall in love your friend to her crush. and try to be her in there romantic relationship. and you trying to depressed because you are the cause of her romantic relationship your help. that is so sad experience for me, i experience that things.

BlogPost 5: Myth of Friend Zone

         



            when I'm in high school, i have a crush. i like her so much and i want to have a some sex with her. but i try to show my feelings to her but she didn't appreciate that feelings. and i think to propose a romantic relationship to her but i self thinking about that things to do. when i propose a romantic relationship maybe she try to avoid me or the our friendship is gone. so i don't that i don't want to try to propose a romantic relationship. and that i forever fantasy to her, but i lucky to be friend because if you are friend you carrying her, paying attention with her, giving importance with her. You so very lucky in friend zone?.

I read on the article entitled Myths about the so-called "Friend Zone" on this site http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt59801.html and the author is Complex to see the profile her http://www.wrongplanet.net/forums-profile-viewprofile-u-17484.html
Many men, Aspie and NT alike, have invented a false concept called "The Friend Zone." According to this idea, after meeting a guy for about 10 minutes, women make a snap judgment about the guy in question. If they find him attractive, he is date material and they will pursue him. If they do not find him attractive, he is assigned the category of "friend" and placed in the "Friend Zone," an extra-dimensional prison similar to purgatory from which he can never escape. This entire concept is wrongheaded.
Myth the first: "The Friend Zone" is a female only construct. 
As a matter of fact, men have their own "Friend Zone." Find a girl unattractive? Friend Zone! Too heavy? Friend Zone! Wrong type? Friend Zone!

Myth the second: "The Friend Zone" is inescapable. 
Women can and do change their minds all the time. The way to escape the so-called "Friend Zone" may at first seem counter-intuitive but bear with me. It is possible to move out of the so-called "Friend Zone" by, wait for it, actually being a woman's friend!!! In my experience, most women learn to find a man attractive over time, first their personality traits, and then their physical appearance. I know many couples who were "just friends" for a long period of time before they realized that the best romantic relationship is built on friendship and common experiences; the nature of their association thus changed to an intimate one. Do men and women meet, hit it off and start dating almost immediately? Sure, but it's the exception rather than the rule.

Myth the third: The so-called "The Friend Zone" is undesirable. 
What's so undesirable about being friends with a woman anyway? Not only are friends a good thing in and of themselves, but friends beget friends, and the more female friends a guy has, the better chance he has of meeting a potential girlfriend.

I have a friend experience friend zone i tell some about her.

she says more benefits in friend zone, like the no commitment, friend: best friend, MU to the highest level, you can be close that she not to be awkward, you have more info to her/him, you can be partner take note without other people having a malicious thought for the two of you, chance of being her/his girl/boy someday, and Enjoy the craziest company, you don’t need to make an effort just to be special in front of him/her.


just me, when i;m in love with people i love, I'll do my best just to be with her side, enjoying the i said benefits above. at the short term goal of my, be a partner while his waiting for the right boy for her. and i waiting for my Ms. Right for me. Accepting the reality is the key. accept the fact that you are not for each other and you take care of the friendship, special the bonding you have. really hurt of that, the fact is you are not love that girl, but you don't have possible for that. and sayings, letting go is one way to say I Love You. i would rather just those friend zone wherein i can keep her for a longer time than being her boy and have relationship for just a short period of time. for sure so not really more lasting, cause don't have a foundation of love, and you become the very early, not yet the right time, where did that relationship go?, in
break up!. so if could you bitter, and enjoy you that. act positively! my old term goal?. if ever not really she loves me I want our relationship  to be at the level of ULTIMATE FRIEND ZONE. i want to be her greatest friend of all time.

BlogPost 4: Avoiding Friend Zone

       For me not OK if you stuck in the Friend Zone. You feel they failed to express any feelings. You try to stuck in the friend zone? To avoid that being attracted because she have like in other boys or she have a crush to some boys out there. Or try to become a good or handsome to your friend. and try to propose to your friend if you like Daniel Padilla you don’t become in friend zone.

To avoid this friend zone once of all being attracted or better to her crush and finding a match they are just too dissimilar to ever really have a mutually-satisfying and equal relationship. Essentially, they are trying for the wrong person and being bold and asking rather than getting stuck in the friend zone by being scared or devious, it is often more productive to state what is desired up front.And the last one making them work by doing all the work, an individual puts himself or herself "in" the friend zone. When they do all the investing...they develop all of the loving feelings. The other person does not.  Because if you do not do those things you stuck forever in friend zone. I read this article in this site http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201302/avoiding-the-friend-zone-becoming-girlfriend-or-boyfriend written by Dr. jeremy Nichoison. This is information in Dr. Nichoison http://attractiondoctor.com/about/

      I have some friends did not doing that actually there love one is gone. And trying to come back there friend but they do some mistakes or being stupid. And I also to is being stupid is very irritating condition to your love ones because you do not express your feeling. And become friend zone is so lucky because you see her, you care her, you giving importance her but being friend only.

Blogpost 3: Nice Guy in Friend Zone

      Nice guy is a called for you of your friend. What do think about nice guy? I wonder a nice guy is not a good guy or handsome guy in friend zone because a nice guy word in friend zone is you’re not like your friend and to avoid her for your proposal to be a boyfriend because you are just friend and not to enter a romantic relationship. 

 “Nice Guy Syndrome and The Friend Zone” an article written by Alisse Desrosiers read about her article in this site http://feminspire.com/nice-guy-syndrome-and-the-friend-zone/.

The Friend Zone is bullshit, misogynistic, make-believe land Nice Guys have come up with to demonize women for not wanting to date them. They use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are Actual Reasons behind their decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with this guy. You know, like not being physically attracted to them. Or not being able to connect with them. Or seeing through their crap and realizing that the only reason these guys are even friends with them in the first place is so they can get laid.

Sometimes call me a nice guy I wonder of that because my friend calls me that nice guy. And that friend is my crush that so in love so much when my crush calls me like that. And have a different meaning of nice guy. The nice guy I say is a platonic relationship to your friend and you want her. The nice guy you think is you also like her you so hopeful of that because the girl thinks are not that means. Means of you being rejected in other term of saying or also called I don’t like you or you are stupid guy. Because other thinks of girls you want her because for a sex relationship.

Some of girl is so open minded or advance to think so for boys do not propose to a girl if you being friend because of that reason. For boys if you call a girl a bitch, a slut, ugly you are not nice. Some girls are picky in terms of who they want to be in a relation/commitment with.

BlogPost 2: Friend Zone is totally annoying

           When I’m in high school, I experience the Friend Zone. I in love to my friend and she realize that but she rejected my caring with her and giving her importance. And I try to propose a romantic relationship but she said “We Just Friend and We Are Not Compatible with Each Other”. I realize she is right because we have a good friendship. But I love her and I like to be girlfriend. So sad to me because I want her but we just friend. And I don’t want our friendship is gone to my once mistake.

 I read on this article The “Friend Zone” is Total F*cking B*llsh*t the author is Rosie to see about her in this site http://makemeasammich.org/author/makemeasammichrosie/ and more info to my article in this site http://makemeasammich.org/2013/05/04/the-friend-zone-is-total-fucking-bullshit/.

       People who believe in the Friend Zone seem to think that if a guy is nice enough to a woman for long enough, he’s entitled to something. (Spoiler: He’s not.) Again, this assumes an awful lot about a woman’s right to choose who the fuck she has a relationship with and pretty much anything else–in fact, it actually removes that right to choose and transforms it into the man’s right to be her boyfriend. In other words, a dude is entitled to a woman once he’s made a sufficient investment in her. If she disagrees, and heaven forbid if she’s interested in someone else, she’s a bitch–or worse, a slut.

       Based on this article more advantages to girl in friend zone because in this status girl is much of important to his friend and some girl abuse a guy who like her and trying to leave there friendship. And girls think not easy to move a romantic relationship from friendship because you have good fellowship with her as a “Friend”.

                         

Much friendship is gone, Because of falling in love a boy to her friend. Many Friendships suffering friend zone and trying to escape in this status. Think about this you want a romantic relationship to your friend how that friendship is lost?. I sad to hear that because friendship is one of important relationship for me because if you do not have a friendship your life is so bored and you not have to say free your sad moments in your life or you don't have a happy bonding with a many friends. I'm lucky I have many Friends.

BlogPost 1: Introduction

What is Friend Zone?

The “friend zone” refers to a platonic relationship where one person wishes to enter into a romantic relationship while the other does not.
         

Hmm. Is this complicated?

                                               

Seems hard to be defined do not necessarily have to experience friend zoned. Because we have different vision of what you really love meaning none. Based on my own beliefs just ha, no definite meaning those "friend zone (d)". Depending on the felt or feel how they give those words mean friend zone.

This is the worst position someone can be in, if they have feelings for someone. When a person develops romantic feelings for someone, but the other person only sees the relationship as just being friends. Because the two are around each other a lot, the one in love will harbor his/her feelings for the others. Only to become completely consumed by this person. This leads to the one in love to complain to all his/her friends about the situation, and to become "pussy whipped" by the other.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=The%20Friend%20Zone

http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/815664.Aaron_Peckham

         In friend zoned dare, those that friend zoned you thank you. Preferred because they know where you are more lasting. Imagine, if you did that become forever did you? If yes, get lost. There's no such thing as forever. Well, nothing really. I agree that there also you have more lasting just friends with you. Maybe you do not really have for each other; maybe you really luck to friend zoned. Accept you just, you just accept him for a friend you just really. There are actually people who knowingly befriend only, not girlfriend. Everything becomes light or turn becomes easy to see those learned acceptance.