when I'm in high school, i have a crush. i like her so much and i want to have a some sex with her. but i try to show my feelings to her but she didn't appreciate that feelings. and i think to propose a romantic relationship to her but i self thinking about that things to do. when i propose a romantic relationship maybe she try to avoid me or the our friendship is gone. so i don't that i don't want to try to propose a romantic relationship. and that i forever fantasy to her, but i lucky to be friend because if you are friend you carrying her, paying attention with her, giving importance with her. You so very lucky in friend zone?.
I read on the article entitled Myths about the so-called "Friend Zone" on this site http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt59801.html and the author is Complex to see the profile her http://www.wrongplanet.net/forums-profile-viewprofile-u-17484.html
Many men, Aspie and NT alike, have invented a false concept called "The Friend Zone." According to this idea, after meeting a guy for about 10 minutes, women make a snap judgment about the guy in question. If they find him attractive, he is date material and they will pursue him. If they do not find him attractive, he is assigned the category of "friend" and placed in the "Friend Zone," an extra-dimensional prison similar to purgatory from which he can never escape. This entire concept is wrongheaded.
Myth the first: "The Friend Zone" is a female only construct.
As a matter of fact, men have their own "Friend Zone." Find a girl unattractive? Friend Zone! Too heavy? Friend Zone! Wrong type? Friend Zone!
Myth the second: "The Friend Zone" is inescapable.
Women can and do change their minds all the time. The way to escape the so-called "Friend Zone" may at first seem counter-intuitive but bear with me. It is possible to move out of the so-called "Friend Zone" by, wait for it, actually being a woman's friend!!! In my experience, most women learn to find a man attractive over time, first their personality traits, and then their physical appearance. I know many couples who were "just friends" for a long period of time before they realized that the best romantic relationship is built on friendship and common experiences; the nature of their association thus changed to an intimate one. Do men and women meet, hit it off and start dating almost immediately? Sure, but it's the exception rather than the rule.
Myth the third: The so-called "The Friend Zone" is undesirable.
What's so undesirable about being friends with a woman anyway? Not only are friends a good thing in and of themselves, but friends beget friends, and the more female friends a guy has, the better chance he has of meeting a potential girlfriend.
I have a friend experience friend zone i tell some about her.
she says more benefits in friend zone, like the no commitment, friend: best friend, MU to the highest level, you can be close that she not to be awkward, you have more info to her/him, you can be partner take note without other people having a malicious thought for the two of you, chance of being her/his girl/boy someday, and Enjoy the craziest company, you don’t need to make an effort just to be special in front of him/her.
just me, when i;m in love with people i love, I'll do my best just to be with her side, enjoying the i said benefits above. at the short term goal of my, be a partner while his waiting for the right boy for her. and i waiting for my Ms. Right for me. Accepting the reality is the key. accept the fact that you are not for each other and you take care of the friendship, special the bonding you have. really hurt of that, the fact is you are not love that girl, but you don't have possible for that. and sayings, letting go is one way to say I Love You. i would rather just those friend zone wherein i can keep her for a longer time than being her boy and have relationship for just a short period of time. for sure so not really more lasting, cause don't have a foundation of love, and you become the very early, not yet the right time, where did that relationship go?, in
break up!. so if could you bitter, and enjoy you that. act positively! my old term goal?. if ever not really she loves me I want our relationship to be at the level of ULTIMATE FRIEND ZONE. i want to be her greatest friend of all time.
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