BlogPost 6: Steps of Friend Zone

           For me as in friend zone have many people experience friend zone as a sheepish guy. If you are sheepish you are forever friend zone. If you don't try the reality of love or you not to express your feeling to her. and you are forever in friend. I experience that I became a friend forever because I did not show my feelings to my crush. And one day suddenly I receive a news from my friend, my crush have a boyfriend. That day I'm so quiet and listless. And my crush ask me why you so quiet? I said "nothing never mind that".





            I read this article entitled The Philosophy of Friend Zone: Revisited in this site http://spilledicecream.wordpress.com/2012/12/26/the-philosophy-of-the-friendzone-revisited/ and the author http://spilledicecream.wordpress.com/author/kyleedralin/

based on this article telling of friend zone following steps.


YOU ARE FRIENDZONED IF YOU FOLLOWED ALL OF THESE STEPS:


-BOY LIKES GIRL. Or the other way around, I’m just assuming that most of the friendzoned are males.

-ATTRACTION IS COMPLETELY ONE-SIDED. This must be necessary. If there is mutual attraction, what the hell are you doing reading this?? Take her/him out already!

-OTHER PARTY KNOWS ABOUT SAID ATTRACTION. This is VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!! Notice the bold italicization. It is imperative that you must have told the other party about your attraction to them. Otherwise, follow rule above, with the revision that TELL THEM. Geez. Half of the problem is solved-or rises-when this part is over with.

-OTHER PARTY DECLINES RECIPROCITY OF ATTRACTION, BUT WISHES TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP OUTSIDE SAID ATTRACTION. Now, here’s where the “SUX2BU” comes in. You just confessed to the person, and they decline, but wish to keep you as a friend. Sometimes though, they don’t give a straight answer, which is one of the most cruel things that you can do to someone. Very politely, pressure them for an answer. This stage is one of the most tricky to navigate through, but the sooner you get an answer, the better. If they say yes- then go for it. If they say no, well… follow through the last step. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES MUST YOU WAIT FOR AN ANSWER. THAT IS JUST MEAN.

-DESPITE OF ALL ABOVE SITUATIONS, YOU STILL WISH TO PURSUE SAID PERSON AS A ROMANTIC INTEREST. The clincher. The cruel, cruel hope that one day, they would feel the same as you. That like some cheap Hollywood movie, they would turn around and realize that you, the love of their lives, was just behind them all the time while they probably went out with a dozen different guys before they realized it.







        If you follow that steps you supposed to be in friend zone. i hate friend zone really really hate that because if you in friend zone you love your friend?. or she love anyone and telling help to each other. and try to fall in love your friend to her crush. and try to be her in there romantic relationship. and you trying to depressed because you are the cause of her romantic relationship your help. that is so sad experience for me, i experience that things.